Pastor Tyler delivered an excellent sermon today..well, he always does...
A lot of what he said made me think, but there was one thought in particular that I really needed to hear again, from 2 Corinthians 12:9:
"My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in
weakness.Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my
weaknesses, so that Christ's power may rest on me."
I have been having an exceptionally hard time with that. My weakness truly bothers me. I have had such peace lately about trusting Him, about practicing letting go of control, and resting in His care. And yet, I am still so far from where I long to be. I am still so broken, and my ways are by default still so twisted.
And then this truth was "dropped" on me kind of out of nowhere and it landed right in the center of my aching and weary heart. It's ok to be weak. Actually, it is preferable because His power is made perfect in my weakness. HIS POWER IS MADE PERFECT IN MY WEAKNESS. I have to repeat that to myself and let it sink in, let it go deep, and land where I can accept what He has already accepted about me.
He has already seen the depths of my weaknesses. He has already accepted these weaknesses, and His power has already overcome them. His perfect power already covers me, today, right now, as I am.
"Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ's power may rest on Me"
Whoa....boast? like..out loud? Hmm, challenge accepted. The weaker I am, the more powerful He is, right? So here goes, I shall boast gladly about my weakness, and choose to take the opportunity to see Him and His power instead, at work in and through me.
I am weak when I seek to be god in my life, to be in control of things that I cannot and should not control
I am weak when I seek to provide for my own needs instead of trusting Him and seeking His peace
I am weak when I appoint myself as judge of others and their actions and motives. When I decide that I somehow know better than they what they ought to be doing
I am weak when I sin against another in anger, when I let my hurt injure another
I am weak when I give out of compulsion, instead of out of genuine love
I am weak when I am tempted to sin to lessen my suffering, and when I can't see that to suffer for doing good and enduring the pain while seeking Him for comfort is where His freedom is
There is so much more, but that will do for now ;-)
I am thankful for my inability "do better"
When I relinquish any illusion that my self control is enough, my freedom begins. When I give up the idea that I can do better by simply gritting my teeth and trying harder, I can really start to grow.
When I stop trying to control my sin, and run to Him, Jesus can step in for me and take me the rest of the way.
I can't say that I have ever enjoyed my weakness, I mean..who does? It reminds me of everything that I hate. It reminds me that I am not in control. It reminds me that I can't win, try as I might.
But, today I am thankful. I can see and name my weakness. And I am so thankful that I can go to Him whenever they crop up. Constantly, over and over. I can go be with Him each time, and let His grace wash over me, and let Him carry me.
I am thankful "That is why, for Christ’s sake, I delight in weaknesses, in insults, in hardships, in persecutions, in difficulties. For when I am weak, then I am strong." 2 Corinthians 12:10
Sunday, January 13, 2013
Sunday, January 06, 2013
Waiting
Pursuing God is confusing....perplexing, and sometimes frustrating
But I figured something out this week,while reading "The Healing Path" by Dr. Allender. I have read and heard the metaphor of the "desert" many times as a means to express the dry and lonely place where we sometimes find ourselves on our Spiritual journey. But this time, it truly echoed in my heart like never before.
One particular thought really struck a chord and moved me deeply. I hadn't considered some of the implications of the nature of this desert place,and how it affects our hearts. It caused me to see Him differently, to see the process differently.
"To walk the healing path, we must wrestle with our refusal to keep traveling between desire and satisfaction, where God neither answers our prayer for healing nor clearly illumines a path away from fear. God lets us wait, not to punish us, not because he has forgotten us, because our waiting is the crucible he uses to purify our hope for him."
This paragraph brought a new epiphany for me.
There is space between desire and satisfaction. It is uncomfortable space, I'll give you that, but never before now did I think of this space as fertile ground. I always thought the desert was where I suffered in silence, gritted my teeth and waited until he delivered relief.
But I see it differently now. He brings me out into the desert, but not to grit my teeth. He wants me open enough to want, to desire, in order that I may come after Him, but He doesn't move in immediately to meet me and my need...He lets me linger in this space. It's not barren and dry, but it's not yet luscious either.
It seems kind of mean, doesn't it? Almost cruel even... this in-between, this limbo.
But it's not, it's beautiful. He knows my heart better than I do, and knows just the right time to come for me. He leads me into the uncomfortable place, slowly and helps me loosen my grip on my self sufficient ways. He leads me to a place where as I let go, I see my need, want and desire.He waits long enough for me to stop looking in the world. He waits long enough for me to stop actively trying to get for myself what He isn't giving me yet. He draws me out as I slowly release.
Then once He has my attention, He waits some more.
That is where I am today. I recognize my need. My deep desire for the abundant life He has promised me. I desire love, passion, pursuit. I desire to be known and cherished and romanced. I desire wild adventure.
I have looked elsewhere for all of this. I have sought to secure all these things for myself (albeit sometimes, or most of the time,subconsciously) through manipulation,by using others, by victimizing myself, by giving myself away. By betraying my own integrity in order that I may experience a cheap imitation of what my heart is made for. When I have done that, I have gotten farther and farther away from my heart's true desire. From what God intends for me, from what I was created to be and to have.
That's when the anger has set it. I have protested. I have shaken my fists in the air and demanded an explanation, demanded deliverance, and satisfaction, allowing that anger to fester in my heart and make me unpleasant, whiny, entitled. When I get to this place I have a choice. My anger and disappointment can lead me to shutting down, and giving up. It can lead me away from His path and His peace. That has been a temptation, I will admit, but I don't do well in that barren and hopeless place. I usually resolve to do better. I resolve to seek Him and try again, but what I am seeing now is that in actuality what I have done is resolved to "fix" things and work harder at taking care of myself. While keeping Him somewhat close, just in case I need Him. But I am realizing this. I don't get to have both my ways and His ways. So while I keep Him on "stand-by" I am in fact choosing to comfort myself, rather than letting Him come for me.
This time I am choosing to be uncomfortable. I am choosing the space between desire and satisfaction.I am choosing not to resolve, but to let go.
It's an interesting and confusing dance. By allowing my heart to still desire and want but not taking any action to satisfy them, I allow hurt and fear to come into my life. But in this pain I wait for Him. At times I have thought that if I am willing to bring the desire and pain to Him, He will come meet me and satisfy me with His love and His goodness. After all, that is why He brings me to this dry land, isn't it? To fill me with Himself.
But He doesn't come right away. Maybe it's because first my heart has to be ready for Him. Ready to give up my self sufficiency, and my manipulative ways of insisting on living in the illusion that I am the architect of my own joy and peace.
So in the past when He didn't come to my rescue at once, I have taken this as a sign that I once again needed to "take charge". Sure, God will rescue me, satisfy me and fill me, but for now I need to make things happen. For now, I am on my own, while I wait. I'd better get busy while I wait.
God knows how many opportunities I have squandered for true communion with the source of all comfort while I was busy fending for myself!
I am seeing things differently right now. When I wait, I get to make room for Him. I make room, not make things happen. I let Him come, not take over.
In this space there is room for my heart to experience the Peace that comes from Faith. That which the heart believes, though the eyes cannot see. While I wait I don't get to manipulate, dictate, orchestrate or any other -ate. That's what waiting is! That is what faith is.To wait is to delay action. That in and of itself is like a foreign language to me.
No action? No comprendo!
But it is necessary. No action, no movement, unless He directs. No plan on how I will rescue myself from my loneliness, my unfulfilled longings, and the deep sadness that accompanies them. No band aid, no anesthesia, no distraction.
It is necessary to truly be still and not succumb to the temptation to take over. It is necessary to not expect Him to come to me at my will and on my terms and my timing.
It is necessary to let go of my illusions. It is necessary to face my fears, my what ifs. What if I let go and everything gets worse? What if my desires crush me? There are no guarantees and no definite answers, just that He is.
The only guarantee I have is Jeremiah 29:12-13 "Then you will call on me and come and pray to me, and I will listen to you. You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart."
I think I have glossed over that part before. "with all your heart". To seek Him with all my heart means I have given up my ways first. It means I have laid down my weapon, my resources, and my plans. It means I have abandoned my strategy to secure my own happiness. It means I am accepting my utter dependency and am willing to follow Him into the desert where He calls me, and there, wait for Him and Him alone, without a back-up plan. For as long as I need to.
That promise is true. And if that promise is true, then my end of the deal is to give all my heart.
To do that I must continue to practice snatching my heart back from the jaws of the illusory promise of self satisfaction. And hand the beat up, shredded, pitiful thing back over to Him. Again and again.
I won't lie, I find it lonely and somewhat bewildering. Unsettling and uncertain. Patience in waiting is not my strongest virtue.
But the beauty of it all is, I also find it deeply healing. He pursues me. He calls me out, and He promises to come. In the waiting, while I hurt and long for relief, there is a heart that is free of illusion and self deceit.
In the waiting there is hope and anticipation of His coming.
And once He comes, I know that the exhausting fight and the lonely desert will have been well worth it.
But I figured something out this week,while reading "The Healing Path" by Dr. Allender. I have read and heard the metaphor of the "desert" many times as a means to express the dry and lonely place where we sometimes find ourselves on our Spiritual journey. But this time, it truly echoed in my heart like never before.
One particular thought really struck a chord and moved me deeply. I hadn't considered some of the implications of the nature of this desert place,and how it affects our hearts. It caused me to see Him differently, to see the process differently.
"To walk the healing path, we must wrestle with our refusal to keep traveling between desire and satisfaction, where God neither answers our prayer for healing nor clearly illumines a path away from fear. God lets us wait, not to punish us, not because he has forgotten us, because our waiting is the crucible he uses to purify our hope for him."
This paragraph brought a new epiphany for me.
There is space between desire and satisfaction. It is uncomfortable space, I'll give you that, but never before now did I think of this space as fertile ground. I always thought the desert was where I suffered in silence, gritted my teeth and waited until he delivered relief.
But I see it differently now. He brings me out into the desert, but not to grit my teeth. He wants me open enough to want, to desire, in order that I may come after Him, but He doesn't move in immediately to meet me and my need...He lets me linger in this space. It's not barren and dry, but it's not yet luscious either.
It seems kind of mean, doesn't it? Almost cruel even... this in-between, this limbo.
But it's not, it's beautiful. He knows my heart better than I do, and knows just the right time to come for me. He leads me into the uncomfortable place, slowly and helps me loosen my grip on my self sufficient ways. He leads me to a place where as I let go, I see my need, want and desire.He waits long enough for me to stop looking in the world. He waits long enough for me to stop actively trying to get for myself what He isn't giving me yet. He draws me out as I slowly release.
Then once He has my attention, He waits some more.
That is where I am today. I recognize my need. My deep desire for the abundant life He has promised me. I desire love, passion, pursuit. I desire to be known and cherished and romanced. I desire wild adventure.
I have looked elsewhere for all of this. I have sought to secure all these things for myself (albeit sometimes, or most of the time,subconsciously) through manipulation,by using others, by victimizing myself, by giving myself away. By betraying my own integrity in order that I may experience a cheap imitation of what my heart is made for. When I have done that, I have gotten farther and farther away from my heart's true desire. From what God intends for me, from what I was created to be and to have.
That's when the anger has set it. I have protested. I have shaken my fists in the air and demanded an explanation, demanded deliverance, and satisfaction, allowing that anger to fester in my heart and make me unpleasant, whiny, entitled. When I get to this place I have a choice. My anger and disappointment can lead me to shutting down, and giving up. It can lead me away from His path and His peace. That has been a temptation, I will admit, but I don't do well in that barren and hopeless place. I usually resolve to do better. I resolve to seek Him and try again, but what I am seeing now is that in actuality what I have done is resolved to "fix" things and work harder at taking care of myself. While keeping Him somewhat close, just in case I need Him. But I am realizing this. I don't get to have both my ways and His ways. So while I keep Him on "stand-by" I am in fact choosing to comfort myself, rather than letting Him come for me.
This time I am choosing to be uncomfortable. I am choosing the space between desire and satisfaction.I am choosing not to resolve, but to let go.
It's an interesting and confusing dance. By allowing my heart to still desire and want but not taking any action to satisfy them, I allow hurt and fear to come into my life. But in this pain I wait for Him. At times I have thought that if I am willing to bring the desire and pain to Him, He will come meet me and satisfy me with His love and His goodness. After all, that is why He brings me to this dry land, isn't it? To fill me with Himself.
But He doesn't come right away. Maybe it's because first my heart has to be ready for Him. Ready to give up my self sufficiency, and my manipulative ways of insisting on living in the illusion that I am the architect of my own joy and peace.
So in the past when He didn't come to my rescue at once, I have taken this as a sign that I once again needed to "take charge". Sure, God will rescue me, satisfy me and fill me, but for now I need to make things happen. For now, I am on my own, while I wait. I'd better get busy while I wait.
God knows how many opportunities I have squandered for true communion with the source of all comfort while I was busy fending for myself!
I am seeing things differently right now. When I wait, I get to make room for Him. I make room, not make things happen. I let Him come, not take over.
In this space there is room for my heart to experience the Peace that comes from Faith. That which the heart believes, though the eyes cannot see. While I wait I don't get to manipulate, dictate, orchestrate or any other -ate. That's what waiting is! That is what faith is.To wait is to delay action. That in and of itself is like a foreign language to me.
No action? No comprendo!
But it is necessary. No action, no movement, unless He directs. No plan on how I will rescue myself from my loneliness, my unfulfilled longings, and the deep sadness that accompanies them. No band aid, no anesthesia, no distraction.
It is necessary to truly be still and not succumb to the temptation to take over. It is necessary to not expect Him to come to me at my will and on my terms and my timing.
It is necessary to let go of my illusions. It is necessary to face my fears, my what ifs. What if I let go and everything gets worse? What if my desires crush me? There are no guarantees and no definite answers, just that He is.
The only guarantee I have is Jeremiah 29:12-13 "Then you will call on me and come and pray to me, and I will listen to you. You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart."
I think I have glossed over that part before. "with all your heart". To seek Him with all my heart means I have given up my ways first. It means I have laid down my weapon, my resources, and my plans. It means I have abandoned my strategy to secure my own happiness. It means I am accepting my utter dependency and am willing to follow Him into the desert where He calls me, and there, wait for Him and Him alone, without a back-up plan. For as long as I need to.
That promise is true. And if that promise is true, then my end of the deal is to give all my heart.
To do that I must continue to practice snatching my heart back from the jaws of the illusory promise of self satisfaction. And hand the beat up, shredded, pitiful thing back over to Him. Again and again.
I won't lie, I find it lonely and somewhat bewildering. Unsettling and uncertain. Patience in waiting is not my strongest virtue.
But the beauty of it all is, I also find it deeply healing. He pursues me. He calls me out, and He promises to come. In the waiting, while I hurt and long for relief, there is a heart that is free of illusion and self deceit.
In the waiting there is hope and anticipation of His coming.
And once He comes, I know that the exhausting fight and the lonely desert will have been well worth it.
Wednesday, January 02, 2013
My New Year's Resolutions
I hate contrived, "traditions" whereby we make each other feel like we aren't quite doing enough, or being enough.
It sounds too much like a "should" and I hate those too.
But....
I am very much in favor of making intentional decisions to do good things, to be good things, to work on things. That, I can get on board with.
So here goes...I have been thinking about what it is that I am not currently doing or practicing that I think would be good to do.
I don't necessarily respond well to formulaic resolutions like, I vow to do x every day. or every other day. or Monday, Wednesdays and Fridays. I am too much of a pain in the ass. Oops, I mean, rebel. I don't do well with schedules, formulas or too structured an expectation or plan. The wild animal inside of me might get spooked and run, and then...well, what good would that do anyone?
So, instead I think, I want to do more of those things that are good for me, for others, overall and all around GOOD stuff. How much more? I don't know, I don't much care either. However much is good, however the Spirit leads, just...more. That's quantifiable enough for me. If I am putting more good out there, I don't think it matters if I can measure it.
The number one thing I want to do more of is, Love God. And I mean...more, so much more than I do now. And the only way to be able to do that, is know Him more. My knowledge of Him is limited, and by logical consequence, so is my Love and devotion to Him. But I want more. More of Him, more communion with Him, more day to day, hour by hour, minute to minute with Him. More intimacy, more dependency, more worship, more trust. All I really need to do here is be MINDFUL. It really isn't a huge change, just a small shift, but what a difference it makes. To seek Him in all things, to see Him in and through people, beauty, love and grace...and fun, and laughter, and sweet things.
The number 2 I want to do more is a very convenient outflow of number 1. I want to love others better. I figure this one will take care of itself because that is what God does when we seek Him. He pours Himself into us and then out through us to those around us.
In the past I have gotten this process backwards and gotten very jumbled up and confused. My determination to love someone out of my own strength and gumption just aren't anything compared to God's love flowing through me, with all the freedom and grace that it carries. My limited love is flawed and conditional, broken and selfish. I desire more, and I will go to the Source for it. More love, more power, more of You in my life. (wow, that's a blast from worship music blast!).
So there it is, those are my 2 (but really one) resolutions. I will look for Him everywhere. I will ask, and I trust Him when He says that I will receive.
Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you. (Matthew 7:7)
That's the promise I am hanging onto and trusting Him with. I trust Him with my heart and I am excited to follow Him in wonderful new adventures in loving Him and those around me.
Oh! and last thing, I also want to earn as many college credits as humanly possible in one calendar year. But that's not at all related, is it? ;-)
It sounds too much like a "should" and I hate those too.
But....
I am very much in favor of making intentional decisions to do good things, to be good things, to work on things. That, I can get on board with.
So here goes...I have been thinking about what it is that I am not currently doing or practicing that I think would be good to do.
I don't necessarily respond well to formulaic resolutions like, I vow to do x every day. or every other day. or Monday, Wednesdays and Fridays. I am too much of a pain in the ass. Oops, I mean, rebel. I don't do well with schedules, formulas or too structured an expectation or plan. The wild animal inside of me might get spooked and run, and then...well, what good would that do anyone?
So, instead I think, I want to do more of those things that are good for me, for others, overall and all around GOOD stuff. How much more? I don't know, I don't much care either. However much is good, however the Spirit leads, just...more. That's quantifiable enough for me. If I am putting more good out there, I don't think it matters if I can measure it.
The number one thing I want to do more of is, Love God. And I mean...more, so much more than I do now. And the only way to be able to do that, is know Him more. My knowledge of Him is limited, and by logical consequence, so is my Love and devotion to Him. But I want more. More of Him, more communion with Him, more day to day, hour by hour, minute to minute with Him. More intimacy, more dependency, more worship, more trust. All I really need to do here is be MINDFUL. It really isn't a huge change, just a small shift, but what a difference it makes. To seek Him in all things, to see Him in and through people, beauty, love and grace...and fun, and laughter, and sweet things.
The number 2 I want to do more is a very convenient outflow of number 1. I want to love others better. I figure this one will take care of itself because that is what God does when we seek Him. He pours Himself into us and then out through us to those around us.
In the past I have gotten this process backwards and gotten very jumbled up and confused. My determination to love someone out of my own strength and gumption just aren't anything compared to God's love flowing through me, with all the freedom and grace that it carries. My limited love is flawed and conditional, broken and selfish. I desire more, and I will go to the Source for it. More love, more power, more of You in my life. (wow, that's a blast from worship music blast!).
So there it is, those are my 2 (but really one) resolutions. I will look for Him everywhere. I will ask, and I trust Him when He says that I will receive.
Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you. (Matthew 7:7)
That's the promise I am hanging onto and trusting Him with. I trust Him with my heart and I am excited to follow Him in wonderful new adventures in loving Him and those around me.
Oh! and last thing, I also want to earn as many college credits as humanly possible in one calendar year. But that's not at all related, is it? ;-)
Saturday, December 22, 2012
Like little children...
You can learn a lot from watching kids....
I observe one particular trait in our little ones in the classroom very regularly, and that is, the tendency to want to take over, be in charge.
Many times in one day I will hear myself say to one of them: "Are you the teacher? Do you trust your teacher?" In other words, do you trust the one who is in charge? And that the one who is in charge can see the whole situation?
Do you trust that I care? Do you trust that I will be fair, kind, and want what's best for you even when it isn't what you want?
Their answer is usually yes. I mean, they know their teachers are kind and loving. They know that we want good things for them. And yet....
They want to take charge of the situation
They believe they are the only ones who know what the right answer/response/ course of action is
They are tempted to take charge of others' and their behavior/decisions
They are tempted to take for themselves whatever it is they want. Whether it's an actual thing, a privilege, or even "justice"
And I see their dilemma so clearly. I trust my teacher. I trust My Father. I really do. I know He wants good things for me, I know He can see the BIG picture, I know He is just and loving
And yet....
I want to take charge, I believe I know what the right course of action is, I want to tell others what to do, I want to get for myself what He isn't giving me.
What do you suppose is going on there? I mean, I am a smart woman. I know these truths about My Father, not just theoretically, but from actual experience. What is the matter with me?
Why do I still want to grab control and do for myself what God isn't doing for me?
I mean, I am a pretty smart cookie, but I'm not smarter than God. If He isn't intervening, might there be a reason? a lesson? a purpose?
That's the hardest part for me to swallow. If there is a purpose (and there always is) to my frustration, I may not get to see that now. I may just have to walk forward in faith and not see the purpose, lesson or reason for a while. And all the while, all I will know is that I am trusting Him, more than I trust me. More than I trust my eyes, my ears, and my heart.
I ask as much from "my kids":
trust me
follow me
listen to me
You will learn that I love you and care well for you, you will learn that you can let go, and that being in charge is not what you were designed for.
Be the child, I will be the teacher. And how much happier you will be....
I observe one particular trait in our little ones in the classroom very regularly, and that is, the tendency to want to take over, be in charge.
Many times in one day I will hear myself say to one of them: "Are you the teacher? Do you trust your teacher?" In other words, do you trust the one who is in charge? And that the one who is in charge can see the whole situation?
Do you trust that I care? Do you trust that I will be fair, kind, and want what's best for you even when it isn't what you want?
Their answer is usually yes. I mean, they know their teachers are kind and loving. They know that we want good things for them. And yet....
They want to take charge of the situation
They believe they are the only ones who know what the right answer/response/ course of action is
They are tempted to take charge of others' and their behavior/decisions
They are tempted to take for themselves whatever it is they want. Whether it's an actual thing, a privilege, or even "justice"
And I see their dilemma so clearly. I trust my teacher. I trust My Father. I really do. I know He wants good things for me, I know He can see the BIG picture, I know He is just and loving
And yet....
I want to take charge, I believe I know what the right course of action is, I want to tell others what to do, I want to get for myself what He isn't giving me.
What do you suppose is going on there? I mean, I am a smart woman. I know these truths about My Father, not just theoretically, but from actual experience. What is the matter with me?
Why do I still want to grab control and do for myself what God isn't doing for me?
I mean, I am a pretty smart cookie, but I'm not smarter than God. If He isn't intervening, might there be a reason? a lesson? a purpose?
That's the hardest part for me to swallow. If there is a purpose (and there always is) to my frustration, I may not get to see that now. I may just have to walk forward in faith and not see the purpose, lesson or reason for a while. And all the while, all I will know is that I am trusting Him, more than I trust me. More than I trust my eyes, my ears, and my heart.
I ask as much from "my kids":
trust me
follow me
listen to me
You will learn that I love you and care well for you, you will learn that you can let go, and that being in charge is not what you were designed for.
Be the child, I will be the teacher. And how much happier you will be....
Saturday, December 08, 2012
Holy Boomerang
This has been quite a week...One of those weeks where after it's done, you figure you'd better write some of it down before you forget.
On a night earlier in the week, I tucked in my sweet boy, turned off his light, and as I was walking out of his room, seemingly out of the blue he said, quite urgently and emphatically :"Mama, I don't want to feel what death feels like" ...um, WHAT!? his words hung in the air...time stopped for a minute or so, I felt blindsided.
I rushed back to his bedside, held him and we talked for a while. We talked about our Father who loves us. Our Father whom we trust with our lives. We talked about not being afraid because we follow Him.
Then, inexplicably, I felt strongly that I should say these words to him: "You don't need to be afraid, because Jesus fights for you". So I did. I told him, and it seem to soothe him. We talked a bit more and I felt that again. So I held his perfect little face in my hands, looked into his eyes and repeated "Jesus fights for you". He smiled. My heart could hardly stand it. It was one of those moments you never forget as a mom. I pray that he will never forget it either, but, who knows, he's only 6 :-)
We continued with our week, and as it turned out it was a more eventful week than we had planned. I will not sit here and talk about all the details. Let's just say some things happened. We felt sufficiently turned upside down, a little stunned, a little shocked, and sad. Just sad.
Paul and I talked, a lot, we tried to make sense of some things, we sought advice, we analyzed, we tried to understand and in more than one way tried to digest what was happening.
We were hurt, and we were scared. Then one night I shared our week with a dear friend, and she said :" We happen to be studying Kings at Community Bible Study, and we just talked about the story of King Jehoshaphat, look it up". She gave me the chapter and verses of this most amazing story.
Here's the part of it that stunned me:
"This is what the Lord says to you: ‘Do not be afraid or discouraged because of this vast army. For the battle is not yours, but God’s. You will not have to fight this battle. Take up your positions; stand firm and see the deliverance the Lord will give you...Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged. Go out to face them tomorrow, and the Lord will be with you.’(2 Chronicles 20:15, 1)
My own words came back to me as I read this, straight to my heart:
"You don't have to be afraid, because Jesus fights for you".
There's this Chris Tomlin song (that I just happen to have heard for the first time this week) and it goes:
"I open my mouth And You speak for me You moved the mountain And rolled back the sea
And I will not be afraid I will never be ashamed For You are with me You are with me
On a night earlier in the week, I tucked in my sweet boy, turned off his light, and as I was walking out of his room, seemingly out of the blue he said, quite urgently and emphatically :"Mama, I don't want to feel what death feels like" ...um, WHAT!? his words hung in the air...time stopped for a minute or so, I felt blindsided.
I rushed back to his bedside, held him and we talked for a while. We talked about our Father who loves us. Our Father whom we trust with our lives. We talked about not being afraid because we follow Him.
Then, inexplicably, I felt strongly that I should say these words to him: "You don't need to be afraid, because Jesus fights for you". So I did. I told him, and it seem to soothe him. We talked a bit more and I felt that again. So I held his perfect little face in my hands, looked into his eyes and repeated "Jesus fights for you". He smiled. My heart could hardly stand it. It was one of those moments you never forget as a mom. I pray that he will never forget it either, but, who knows, he's only 6 :-)
We continued with our week, and as it turned out it was a more eventful week than we had planned. I will not sit here and talk about all the details. Let's just say some things happened. We felt sufficiently turned upside down, a little stunned, a little shocked, and sad. Just sad.
Paul and I talked, a lot, we tried to make sense of some things, we sought advice, we analyzed, we tried to understand and in more than one way tried to digest what was happening.
We were hurt, and we were scared. Then one night I shared our week with a dear friend, and she said :" We happen to be studying Kings at Community Bible Study, and we just talked about the story of King Jehoshaphat, look it up". She gave me the chapter and verses of this most amazing story.
Here's the part of it that stunned me:
"This is what the Lord says to you: ‘Do not be afraid or discouraged because of this vast army. For the battle is not yours, but God’s. You will not have to fight this battle. Take up your positions; stand firm and see the deliverance the Lord will give you...Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged. Go out to face them tomorrow, and the Lord will be with you.’(2 Chronicles 20:15, 1)
My own words came back to me as I read this, straight to my heart:
"You don't have to be afraid, because Jesus fights for you".
There's this Chris Tomlin song (that I just happen to have heard for the first time this week) and it goes:
"I open my mouth And You speak for me You moved the mountain And rolled back the sea
And I will not be afraid I will never be ashamed For You are with me You are with me
Saturday, July 28, 2012
The Lord is my light
I struggle, I fight, I clutch.
As I seek God, I also flee from him,fearing his inevitable disappointment in me.
I know me, I know what I'm capable of...I know my heart, my desires, my weakness.
I am sadly familiar with my ability to break Gods heart and my own .
At times it's all I can do to simply not succumb to my worst wishes for self destruction...
At times I crawl on my knees asking Him to save me from myself..
At times I realize, all I ever need to do is give into His heart.
But it's a dance, it's a coming and going, it's an up and down, to and from, it's a tornado of confusion, sheer willpower, brokenness and freedom. It is paradox, it is up and down at once, it is black and white intertwined.
Only one certain truth: His love
Only one real freedom: His peace
Only one true life: His life lived in me
Only one thing I can do, only one clear choice:
To fight, still
To get up, once more
To continue to choose life, in the midst of death
His grace redeems me, His peace soothes me, His love surrounds me.
The Lord is my light and my salvation; Whom shall I fear? The Lord is the [a] defense of my life; Whom shall I dread? Psalm 27:1
As I seek God, I also flee from him,fearing his inevitable disappointment in me.
I know me, I know what I'm capable of...I know my heart, my desires, my weakness.
I am sadly familiar with my ability to break Gods heart and my own .
At times it's all I can do to simply not succumb to my worst wishes for self destruction...
At times I crawl on my knees asking Him to save me from myself..
At times I realize, all I ever need to do is give into His heart.
But it's a dance, it's a coming and going, it's an up and down, to and from, it's a tornado of confusion, sheer willpower, brokenness and freedom. It is paradox, it is up and down at once, it is black and white intertwined.
Only one certain truth: His love
Only one real freedom: His peace
Only one true life: His life lived in me
Only one thing I can do, only one clear choice:
To fight, still
To get up, once more
To continue to choose life, in the midst of death
His grace redeems me, His peace soothes me, His love surrounds me.
The Lord is my light and my salvation; Whom shall I fear? The Lord is the [a] defense of my life; Whom shall I dread? Psalm 27:1
Saturday, June 23, 2012
What to write...
what could I write?
When nothing inspires me but I know I'll be glad I sat down and started clicking on the keyboard...
When it seems that I should have something to say (I always do) and yet nothing specific shows up to get things going...
What would I write about then?
I'll write about writing...
About the feeling I get as the words roll out and take shape and suddenly just make perfect sense
About the sensation that something else is taking over, someONE, inside and finding the words I can't.
About the joy I experience when I read what I have written and recognize it as my own. And about how I marvel at the fact that it came out almost in spite of my effort.
When I sit down to write and feel as if it is a futile exercise, that's when I know something will be written for sure.
It always finds a way through and out, because after all,
I always have something to say .
Tuesday, June 19, 2012
Smelly Rambling
You know what I love? Well, many things, but today, I am loving this morning scent.
The distinct smell of a summer morning, the warmth permeates and it affects everything. Sitting in the backyard smells different. It smells like hope. It smells like serenity, and peace.
Fine, you think I'm nuts, so what? That's a risk I took long ago when I wrote my first post on this blog, I'm ok with that!
I am very much a smells person. Certain scents can transport me instantly to a different place and time: my grandma's house, my elementary school, my first job...most scents I encounter are quickly filed away and I find it almost impossible to NOT stop and smell the roses. Smells are just, powerful to me.
My father smoked throughout my whole childhood and to this day, although I hated his habit, when someone lights a cigarette, I am drawn to that new cigarette smell. I hate cigarettes, makes no sense. And yet it makes perfect sense to me.
I love smelling Paul's shirts when I do laundry...I love the smell of summer skin, the way skin smells when it's just warm but not quite sweaty yet (I told you, I'm ok with you thinking I'm crazy), I love the smell of a freshly brewed cup of coffee. I love jasmine....my favorite plant smell.
What I am really soaking in this morning is the gift that is just sitting here, smelling my backyard, and thinking about how crazy God made me. And relishing it. I enjoy the world in a way that may be just a little "off", but the point is the enjoyment. Taking a moment to sit and smell, and just....
taste and see that the Lord is good. And smell....can you smell it? I can :-)
The distinct smell of a summer morning, the warmth permeates and it affects everything. Sitting in the backyard smells different. It smells like hope. It smells like serenity, and peace.
Fine, you think I'm nuts, so what? That's a risk I took long ago when I wrote my first post on this blog, I'm ok with that!
I am very much a smells person. Certain scents can transport me instantly to a different place and time: my grandma's house, my elementary school, my first job...most scents I encounter are quickly filed away and I find it almost impossible to NOT stop and smell the roses. Smells are just, powerful to me.
My father smoked throughout my whole childhood and to this day, although I hated his habit, when someone lights a cigarette, I am drawn to that new cigarette smell. I hate cigarettes, makes no sense. And yet it makes perfect sense to me.
I love smelling Paul's shirts when I do laundry...I love the smell of summer skin, the way skin smells when it's just warm but not quite sweaty yet (I told you, I'm ok with you thinking I'm crazy), I love the smell of a freshly brewed cup of coffee. I love jasmine....my favorite plant smell.
What I am really soaking in this morning is the gift that is just sitting here, smelling my backyard, and thinking about how crazy God made me. And relishing it. I enjoy the world in a way that may be just a little "off", but the point is the enjoyment. Taking a moment to sit and smell, and just....
taste and see that the Lord is good. And smell....can you smell it? I can :-)
Saturday, May 26, 2012
Freedom
I sang songs in the car, my heart deep in worship, delighting in a wonderful morning....And then, suddenly the image that came to mind while
I sang was of my heart... The organ itself, wrapped in sin....
Literally engulfed and tied up in an unravel-able web... Knots of selfishness,
idolatry, egotistical thoughts and actions, preoccupation with myself, my self
esteem, my image, my performance, my satisfaction, on and on...
It didn't disgust
me this time, as it has before-- It saddened me, as I imagine it deeply saddens Jesus.... But the truly
beautiful thing I felt was the utter dependence, as I so clearly not only realized but also felt my need for grace.
I Stand broken and sin ridden, TODAY. I don't know why this felt new, but it did.
I'm not confessing some far away sin
committed when I was young and stupid... Lesson learned, forgiven, moving on... I
am living in the reality that my heart is under siege, taken over, like a neglected
garden overgrown with weeds,overtaken by sin, NOW.... Even as I observe
that I've been walking with Jesus for so many years, the truth is, sin has been
my most consistent companion all along, and Jesus has been patiently waiting, coming in and out as I've allowed Him to...in momentary lapses of clarity and need.
As Brennan Manning says "to be alive is to be broken, and to be broken is to stand in need of grace"
Never have I felt this more clearly than I do now. It's not about a specific action, one large and obvious affront to His perfect grace. It is the daily, ongoing battle that rages on in my heart for my freedom, my very life.
Is it possible that I was dead to this for so long, even while in my mind, knowing the truth? Asleep perhaps? or just blind....That I really thought all this time, that it was possible to love Jesus and live so utterly consumed with myself? "You cannot serve two masters" No, I cannot....So the inescapable conclusion is, I have been serving one.
One master: Laura. I have been serving at the altar of Laura, worshiping and catering to myself. This is a hard truth to swallow and admit, and yet unless I do, I cannot be free of this utter megalomania. The thought that it really is about me, my life, my needs, my wants, my "happiness". It isn't. IT SO ISN'T.
If I have life, it is for His glory. If I have any good in me, it is through Him. If I have value, it's because HE loves me. All things are from Him, through Him and for Him. All things. That includes me. Not master Laura, but servant Laura. It's not about my happiness, it is about His glory and the freedom and joy that I can find in Him.
I read a while back about how we say we want to experience God more fully, and yet, we do not dare pray the prayer, because that is a dangerous prayer. It means to be open to being broken. I put the book down that night convinced I wasn't ready to be broken. Too worried about what that would mean for me. I put the book down and thought: "not yet, I'm not ready yet."
Foolishness. As if whatever I am holding onto can come even close to what He has for me!
But He knows better, and so brokenness came, all the same. My heart was already open, though I tried to close it down. My eyes could already see, though I tried to un-see the unsettling truth. There was no going back, and so it washed over me as if all this were new truth, new knowledge, when in reality it is all familiar to my mind, and yet it was a new awakening in my heart, in the midst of the pain. The pain of who I've been, who I am, and how far they are from who I want to be. The pain of the hurt I've caused, the blind selfishness I have inflicted on others, the emptiness of a life lived for self. But most of all the pain of realizing, that while He always holds onto me, I have not been holding on to Him. I have chosen to cling to this world. I have chosen myself over Him, again and again.
Yet the pain is sweet when it comes interlaced with His grace and freedom. When I am ready to see that I have nothing of worth that comes even close to what He has for me, I grow, I cling, I seek desperately, for His life, not mine. His freedom is real, His life is full. And my striving can stop. My desperate need to defend my ego, my worth, my existence, can stop, and I can rest, truly rest in Him.
And I have to cling daily. Because daily my body and heart want to serve the wrong master. I have to cling daily to His grace, or all is lost. Thankfully His grace is infinite and so are His love and His patience.
What heights of love, what depths of peace
When fears are stilled, when strivings cease
My Comforter, my All in All
Here in the love of Christ I stand
My Comforter, my All in All
Here in the love of Christ I stand
Wednesday, May 16, 2012
Broken
This is where God met me and broke me today...
In my car, heart open and wounded, music blaring, tears falling:
(From East to West by Casting Crowns')
Jesus, can You show me just how far the east is from the west
'cause I can't bear to see the man I've been come rising up in me again
In the arms of Your mercy I find rest
'cause You know just how far the east is from the west
From one scarred hand to the other
I know You've washed me white, turned my darkness into light
I need Your peace to get me through, to get me through this night
I can't live by what I feel, but by the truth Your word reveals
I'm not holding on to You, but You're holding on to me
You're holding on to me
(From Word of God Speak by Mercy Me)
I'm finding myself at a loss for words
And the funny thing is it's okay
The last thing I need is to be heard
But to hear what You would say
Word of God speak
Would You pour down like rain
Washing my eyes to see
Your majesty
(From Stronger by Reuben Morgan & Ben Fielding)
You are stronger You are stronger
Sin is broken you have saved me it is written Christ is risen Jesus you are Lord of all
No beginning and no end You're my hope and my defense you came to seek and save the lost you paid it all upon the cross
So let your name be lifted higher
Be lifted higher be lifted higher
He captures my heart and lifts my head. He moves me and reminds me. He holds me.
He is holding me, He is washing my eyes, He is stronger.
In my car, heart open and wounded, music blaring, tears falling:
(From East to West by Casting Crowns')
Jesus, can You show me just how far the east is from the west
'cause I can't bear to see the man I've been come rising up in me again
In the arms of Your mercy I find rest
'cause You know just how far the east is from the west
From one scarred hand to the other
I know You've washed me white, turned my darkness into light
I need Your peace to get me through, to get me through this night
I can't live by what I feel, but by the truth Your word reveals
I'm not holding on to You, but You're holding on to me
You're holding on to me
(From Word of God Speak by Mercy Me)
I'm finding myself at a loss for words
And the funny thing is it's okay
The last thing I need is to be heard
But to hear what You would say
Word of God speak
Would You pour down like rain
Washing my eyes to see
Your majesty
(From Stronger by Reuben Morgan & Ben Fielding)
You are stronger You are stronger
Sin is broken you have saved me it is written Christ is risen Jesus you are Lord of all
No beginning and no end You're my hope and my defense you came to seek and save the lost you paid it all upon the cross
So let your name be lifted higher
Be lifted higher be lifted higher
He captures my heart and lifts my head. He moves me and reminds me. He holds me.
He is holding me, He is washing my eyes, He is stronger.
Sunday, May 13, 2012
The love of God which is in Christ Jesus
"All that is not the love of God has no meaning for me. I can truthfully say that I have no interest in anything but the love of God which is in Christ Jesus. If God wants it to, my life will be useful through my word and witness. If he wants to, my life will bear fruit through my prayers and sacrifices. But the usefulness of my life is his concern, not mine. It would be indecent of me to worry about that." Dominique Voillaume
I read these words today in Brennan Manning's book "The signature of Jesus", a fantastic book that I am already to the middle of (and wishing I didn't go so fast so there'd be more to read longer!) since starting it Thursday.
I read them and so wished those words spoke of my soul, my heart, my love and relationship with Jesus. I read them and thought, this is who I want to be.
I've spent so many years (and especially recently) trying to "figure out what I want to be when I grow up", and today I thought "THIS!" This is not what but who I want to be. What I do is secondary to who I am, and what I want to spend my energy and focus on is being.
I want to live for, from and through the love of God which is in Christ Jesus. I want to not be concerned whether or not my life is "useful", because my life is His, and He will do with it what He will, for His purposes and His glory.
I want to not care about my appearance, my reputation, my accomplishments, and what others think. I want to count it all as white noise.
I want to be single minded, I want to live a simple life. If as quote above, Dominique Voillaume lived a simple life it is because he had only one priority: the love of God which is in Christ Jesus. Everything else pails, everything else fades, everything else is fluff.
I've spent so much time thinking, worrying, planning and striving focused entirely on myself. And where have I gotten? I am still as lost I have ever been. But one thing continues to grow over the years. My desire to get closer to what Manning calls "the center". My desire to be closer to the simple and powerful truth of Jesus Christ grows as I get older and keeps me awake at night, inconveniences me while I go about my day, interrupts my selfish and idle thoughts. And I thank God for it. I want to live in His interruptions, not in my plans. I want to live in His inconvenient setbacks, not my carefully concocted agenda. I want to live in His uncertainty, because He is all that is certain.
I haven't been honest. I have been carefully staging and covering and maneuvering so as to appear. Appear smart, deep, well read, sensitive, spiritual, you name it. Appear. I still act, and talk and post so as to appear a certain way. What an incredible waste of time and energy. I am not here to appear. I am here to live by the love of God who is in Christ Jesus. I am here to love and cherish and point to Him. What I want to appear as and be is the love of God .
I don't know how. But I do trust Him, and it is the desire of my heart. And He says something about that in Psalm 37, doesn't He? Delight yourself in the LORD and he will give you the desires of your heart.
My desire is to delight in Him, kind of a "chicken and egg" situation, wouldn't you say?
It would be just like God to make it this simple: I desire to delight in Him, and He promises to give me the desire of my heart.
I read these words today in Brennan Manning's book "The signature of Jesus", a fantastic book that I am already to the middle of (and wishing I didn't go so fast so there'd be more to read longer!) since starting it Thursday.
I read them and so wished those words spoke of my soul, my heart, my love and relationship with Jesus. I read them and thought, this is who I want to be.
I've spent so many years (and especially recently) trying to "figure out what I want to be when I grow up", and today I thought "THIS!" This is not what but who I want to be. What I do is secondary to who I am, and what I want to spend my energy and focus on is being.
I want to live for, from and through the love of God which is in Christ Jesus. I want to not be concerned whether or not my life is "useful", because my life is His, and He will do with it what He will, for His purposes and His glory.
I want to not care about my appearance, my reputation, my accomplishments, and what others think. I want to count it all as white noise.
I want to be single minded, I want to live a simple life. If as quote above, Dominique Voillaume lived a simple life it is because he had only one priority: the love of God which is in Christ Jesus. Everything else pails, everything else fades, everything else is fluff.
I've spent so much time thinking, worrying, planning and striving focused entirely on myself. And where have I gotten? I am still as lost I have ever been. But one thing continues to grow over the years. My desire to get closer to what Manning calls "the center". My desire to be closer to the simple and powerful truth of Jesus Christ grows as I get older and keeps me awake at night, inconveniences me while I go about my day, interrupts my selfish and idle thoughts. And I thank God for it. I want to live in His interruptions, not in my plans. I want to live in His inconvenient setbacks, not my carefully concocted agenda. I want to live in His uncertainty, because He is all that is certain.
I haven't been honest. I have been carefully staging and covering and maneuvering so as to appear. Appear smart, deep, well read, sensitive, spiritual, you name it. Appear. I still act, and talk and post so as to appear a certain way. What an incredible waste of time and energy. I am not here to appear. I am here to live by the love of God who is in Christ Jesus. I am here to love and cherish and point to Him. What I want to appear as and be is the love of God .
I don't know how. But I do trust Him, and it is the desire of my heart. And He says something about that in Psalm 37, doesn't He? Delight yourself in the LORD and he will give you the desires of your heart.
My desire is to delight in Him, kind of a "chicken and egg" situation, wouldn't you say?
It would be just like God to make it this simple: I desire to delight in Him, and He promises to give me the desire of my heart.
Monday, April 09, 2012
Bliss
I was having a conversation with a very wise man recently, and yet rather than feeling inspired, I was left confused and annoyed.
This wise man was perhaps, in his signature style, condensing the truth (as he saw it) about the subject into one or two sentences, which troubled me, since I process everything verbally, and speech (whether written or spoken) is truly where I find my peace as I unravel the knots and work things out.
The conversation went something like this:
Me: "I don't know what to do, I want to do something, I just don't know what it is"
Paul (yes that's right, he is the wise man I am referring to): "Just do what you love" (notice how many fewer words he uses)
Me: "But I am just not sure what I love! (in a whiny childish tone...endearing, I know)"
Paul: "Just follow your bliss" (ok, this statement was a bit frightening as it sounded more like Oprah than Paul, but I swear that's what he said)
Me:"ugh, you don't get it!" (sounding like an angry and rebellious teenager)
Of course, if I am referring to Paul as the wise man, it's because I realize, in hindsight and a couple of months later, that I am the one who "gets it" now and who was not getting it before.
The truth is, his statement troubled me because it was simple. It was an action statement. Unfortunately I am the kind of person who will go about something in circles and never-ending speculation and regurgitation before I will actually DO something, which I am sure, drives Paul crazy, but that's besides the point.
The point is, action is scary to me. Fear. Action implies commitment, desire, movement and consequences. That is scary to me. Talking about doing something, writing about it and considering all the pros and cons, THAT is where my strength lies, right? Or maybe that is where I lose my life. I lose my life while I am considering what to do with it.
It also troubled me because I truly thought I had lost touch with what I love and would not be able to discover what it is I wanted to spend time exploring and doing. And then what? Scary. There's that fear again.
And it unsettled me because I thought that "my bliss" would translate to my life's work, my career, the thing I spend the rest of my life dedicating myself to. And sadly, I just did not see anything in my life that could become that, which left me feeling a bit like a loser quite frankly. A scared loser.
Then I started trying to think of it in different terms, and just truly find something that gave me pleasure, and do that, for a while at least. Even though I was still scared. Even though that wouldn't be enough, even though I still had so much work to do to find what I truly wanted to do (or so I thought).
I forget exactly how it came to be that I took a step forward, but I did. Amidst the fear and the doubt, I was SICK of myself and all my "researching" and decided to pick something-anything-that I had been considering and, in the wise words of a very rich advertiser, just DO IT.
Then I promptly found some excuses for why it wouldn't work:
It's too far away
We don't have the money
I don't even know if I will like it
It will probably be a waste of time
Then the annoyed "I've had it up to my ears with all your wishy-washy pondering" side of me took over and the decision was made. I am going. And that's THAT!(that is a reference to "How the Grinch stole Christmas" in case you missed it).
The thing I had decided to do (and had been considering more or less for about SIX YEARS) was sign up for a dance class. Modern dance to be exact. Something I have loved since I was a teenager and have missed since I stopped doing it. You would not think it would be this difficult for a person to realize they love and miss something and decide to bring that back into their lives, but what can I say, it's a gift. I am my own worst enemy.
Much to my own surprise, when the day actually came, I got in my car and drove the whole half hour to the studio (I know, SO far!!!!), I went in and danced.
I danced, boy did I dance. It was like coming back to life. Being in the studio with other dancers,moving and flowing and learning a routine, piecing it together, the rhythm and the sweat, feeling my heartbeat in my throat, and the sore feet.
The whole experience left me wondering "WHAT THE HECK IS WRONG WITH ME" I could have been feeling like this for the past six years! But, that is the side of me that likes to beat me up, so I promptly shut her up and continued to bask in the glow of my reclaimed inner dancer.
I have been dancing for only a month, but I cannot conceive a time when I would choose not to dance. Or when I would again say that a half an hour in the car is too long or too big a sacrifice. Or when I would find there is something I would choose over this for that time.
For the 90 minutes I am there, something beautiful happens to me, and I would be an absolute fool not to give myself that gift, as often as I can. That is bliss. It's only one little piece of bliss once a week for now, but it is the true definition of bliss. It's not a career, a life's work or anything beyond one dance class. It is the sense of truly belonging in my own body. It is the feeling of closeness to God Himself, to the one He has made me to be,and closest to her full expression. This is bliss, and I am following it, one class at a time, all the way to wherever it takes me.
I guess the wise man with few words was right. Boy, I hate it when he's right!
This wise man was perhaps, in his signature style, condensing the truth (as he saw it) about the subject into one or two sentences, which troubled me, since I process everything verbally, and speech (whether written or spoken) is truly where I find my peace as I unravel the knots and work things out.
The conversation went something like this:
Me: "I don't know what to do, I want to do something, I just don't know what it is"
Paul (yes that's right, he is the wise man I am referring to): "Just do what you love" (notice how many fewer words he uses)
Me: "But I am just not sure what I love! (in a whiny childish tone...endearing, I know)"
Paul: "Just follow your bliss" (ok, this statement was a bit frightening as it sounded more like Oprah than Paul, but I swear that's what he said)
Me:"ugh, you don't get it!" (sounding like an angry and rebellious teenager)
Of course, if I am referring to Paul as the wise man, it's because I realize, in hindsight and a couple of months later, that I am the one who "gets it" now and who was not getting it before.
The truth is, his statement troubled me because it was simple. It was an action statement. Unfortunately I am the kind of person who will go about something in circles and never-ending speculation and regurgitation before I will actually DO something, which I am sure, drives Paul crazy, but that's besides the point.
The point is, action is scary to me. Fear. Action implies commitment, desire, movement and consequences. That is scary to me. Talking about doing something, writing about it and considering all the pros and cons, THAT is where my strength lies, right? Or maybe that is where I lose my life. I lose my life while I am considering what to do with it.
It also troubled me because I truly thought I had lost touch with what I love and would not be able to discover what it is I wanted to spend time exploring and doing. And then what? Scary. There's that fear again.
And it unsettled me because I thought that "my bliss" would translate to my life's work, my career, the thing I spend the rest of my life dedicating myself to. And sadly, I just did not see anything in my life that could become that, which left me feeling a bit like a loser quite frankly. A scared loser.
Then I started trying to think of it in different terms, and just truly find something that gave me pleasure, and do that, for a while at least. Even though I was still scared. Even though that wouldn't be enough, even though I still had so much work to do to find what I truly wanted to do (or so I thought).
I forget exactly how it came to be that I took a step forward, but I did. Amidst the fear and the doubt, I was SICK of myself and all my "researching" and decided to pick something-anything-that I had been considering and, in the wise words of a very rich advertiser, just DO IT.
Then I promptly found some excuses for why it wouldn't work:
It's too far away
We don't have the money
I don't even know if I will like it
It will probably be a waste of time
Then the annoyed "I've had it up to my ears with all your wishy-washy pondering" side of me took over and the decision was made. I am going. And that's THAT!(that is a reference to "How the Grinch stole Christmas" in case you missed it).
The thing I had decided to do (and had been considering more or less for about SIX YEARS) was sign up for a dance class. Modern dance to be exact. Something I have loved since I was a teenager and have missed since I stopped doing it. You would not think it would be this difficult for a person to realize they love and miss something and decide to bring that back into their lives, but what can I say, it's a gift. I am my own worst enemy.
Much to my own surprise, when the day actually came, I got in my car and drove the whole half hour to the studio (I know, SO far!!!!), I went in and danced.
I danced, boy did I dance. It was like coming back to life. Being in the studio with other dancers,moving and flowing and learning a routine, piecing it together, the rhythm and the sweat, feeling my heartbeat in my throat, and the sore feet.
The whole experience left me wondering "WHAT THE HECK IS WRONG WITH ME" I could have been feeling like this for the past six years! But, that is the side of me that likes to beat me up, so I promptly shut her up and continued to bask in the glow of my reclaimed inner dancer.
I have been dancing for only a month, but I cannot conceive a time when I would choose not to dance. Or when I would again say that a half an hour in the car is too long or too big a sacrifice. Or when I would find there is something I would choose over this for that time.
For the 90 minutes I am there, something beautiful happens to me, and I would be an absolute fool not to give myself that gift, as often as I can. That is bliss. It's only one little piece of bliss once a week for now, but it is the true definition of bliss. It's not a career, a life's work or anything beyond one dance class. It is the sense of truly belonging in my own body. It is the feeling of closeness to God Himself, to the one He has made me to be,and closest to her full expression. This is bliss, and I am following it, one class at a time, all the way to wherever it takes me.
I guess the wise man with few words was right. Boy, I hate it when he's right!
Thursday, April 05, 2012
Enough
So often my posts begin with a quote from a book....yes, I admit it, reading is my crack, and Lord help me when I find an author I really enjoy..I end up reading all their work in just a few days. I guess I do have an addictive personality after all? I was sure I didn't, but I digress
I was reading the book "Lost and Found" by Geneen Roth (whom as you may be guessing is the author du jour for me, or more precisely du week) and she mentions the concept of "enough", which resonated deeply within me, and kind of echoed what I said in my post about contentment.
She writes:"Enough isn't an amount; it's a relationship to what you already have"
Well, we can probably all agree with that statement pretty readily,I think. And yet, in my own life, though the theory of this concept is something I can completely embrace, in the daily comings and goings, not so much.
The fact is that I want more, always
I have been living as if there wasn't enough to go around
I have been living as if I have to "make up" for who I am by getting "more"
If I surround myself with "enough" accoutrement's I can accessorize who I really am (not enough) and hope that everyone will see that what I have clearly demonstrated my worth, and agree with me.
From that standpoint, enough is unattainable. Because enough has to make up for my perceived lack, my deficiency, my inadequacy. And since it is my perception, no amount of outward accessories can come close to that which is inside my faulty head.
For a long time now I have worked on being as genuine as I can be with everyone around me.
I am transparent, honest and open about who I am, my shortcomings, my doubts, my fears. I always thought that meant that I was being "real". But where is the definition of this particular brand of real coming from?
As I am finding out, a big part of it is really a poorly constructed persona. Something my head has developed over the years, and not the best reflection of who I actually am. As it turns out, my version of "real" has more to do with the things I believe about myself (for many intricate reasons) than with the actual TRUTH about myself. It's not that I was being disingenuous, I was just being ignorant and stubborn.
How many of us live this way,I wonder? What do we really believe about ourselves, deep down? What things about ourselves do we take for granted as being "facts" about us, that could maybe stand a little closer examination?I ask because I think maybe, therein lies part of the reason why enough is just not within reach for so many.
For some of us enough is a number, like the one on the scale, or the one in the bank account. They represent security, identity and comfort.
For some, enough is a look, an outfit, a pair of shoes. For some is degrees, titles, accomplishments. There is of course nothing inherently wrong with these "things" in and of themselves, the question is: are these things that we believe about who we are? are these the things that propel the search and striving?
It's really not about the things themselves, it's about what value are we placing on them, what power do they have over us?
For me, the answer to that question was simply: too much.
I can slowly see that I subconsciously thought of myself as the child of long ago. Defenseless, unworthy, broken, insecure, inconvenient, and needy. This child needed comfort wherever it could be found. But there was never enough comfort anywhere. Not in a number, an outfit, a place, a home, a person. I looked for comfort and I looked to be MADE worthy by the "enough-ness" around me, not within me. Because I did not believe there was enough, inside.
Now, don't get me wrong, on a CONSCIOUS level I knew who GOD Made me and how much He loves me and that I am worthy simply because He made me and loves me.
But did this reflect in the way I lived? Did it show in my countenance, my joy, my heart? I was even using THAT as a shield, as an identity. It was not changing my heart, as much as I did try.
And what was my relationship with "what I already have"? Well, it was all going into a bottomless pit, so my relationship with what I already had was fraught with frustration and dissatisfaction. Nothing gave me meaning, nothing gave me peace, nothing brought on the fullness I was searching. Nothing was ever enough.
And another layer of sadness about this is that it robbed me of the joy of taking in what I did have. Those things that I fought hard for, those blessings God had brought into my life, I didn't even "let myself have them". I didn't truly believe (deep down in my broken subconscious) that I deserved these things, that they would last, that I wouldn't somehow screw them up.
Consciously I was grateful, but inside there was no peace.
So enough is a relationship. It has to start with the relationship I have with the one God has made perfect through His holiness. She is within, and she is enough.
Enough is my relationship with the One who has made me enough.
Enough is my relationship with the life He has given me.
Enough is not the number on the scale. Not the list of accomplishments. Not the amount of "likes" on my posts ;-) It isn't attainable "out there". It's IN HERE. It's in dismantling the lies I have believed about myself, and in discovering the freedom of the person He has made, not the prison of the person others have broken.
Enough is attainable because all I need is a willing heart, open and willing to look in and question things. It is attainable because He promises fullness and joy.
I want to spend the rest of my life reminding myself of that and looking for ways to have my "enough" spill over and be poured out for others.
I want to practice living what I know is true, and no longer letting my subconscious choices sabotage what I know. He has made me, He knows me, and He leads me inside for peace.
That is enough.
I want now to be...enough.
I was reading the book "Lost and Found" by Geneen Roth (whom as you may be guessing is the author du jour for me, or more precisely du week) and she mentions the concept of "enough", which resonated deeply within me, and kind of echoed what I said in my post about contentment.
She writes:"Enough isn't an amount; it's a relationship to what you already have"
Well, we can probably all agree with that statement pretty readily,I think. And yet, in my own life, though the theory of this concept is something I can completely embrace, in the daily comings and goings, not so much.
The fact is that I want more, always
I have been living as if there wasn't enough to go around
I have been living as if I have to "make up" for who I am by getting "more"
If I surround myself with "enough" accoutrement's I can accessorize who I really am (not enough) and hope that everyone will see that what I have clearly demonstrated my worth, and agree with me.
From that standpoint, enough is unattainable. Because enough has to make up for my perceived lack, my deficiency, my inadequacy. And since it is my perception, no amount of outward accessories can come close to that which is inside my faulty head.
For a long time now I have worked on being as genuine as I can be with everyone around me.
I am transparent, honest and open about who I am, my shortcomings, my doubts, my fears. I always thought that meant that I was being "real". But where is the definition of this particular brand of real coming from?
As I am finding out, a big part of it is really a poorly constructed persona. Something my head has developed over the years, and not the best reflection of who I actually am. As it turns out, my version of "real" has more to do with the things I believe about myself (for many intricate reasons) than with the actual TRUTH about myself. It's not that I was being disingenuous, I was just being ignorant and stubborn.
How many of us live this way,I wonder? What do we really believe about ourselves, deep down? What things about ourselves do we take for granted as being "facts" about us, that could maybe stand a little closer examination?I ask because I think maybe, therein lies part of the reason why enough is just not within reach for so many.
For some of us enough is a number, like the one on the scale, or the one in the bank account. They represent security, identity and comfort.
For some, enough is a look, an outfit, a pair of shoes. For some is degrees, titles, accomplishments. There is of course nothing inherently wrong with these "things" in and of themselves, the question is: are these things that we believe about who we are? are these the things that propel the search and striving?
It's really not about the things themselves, it's about what value are we placing on them, what power do they have over us?
For me, the answer to that question was simply: too much.
I can slowly see that I subconsciously thought of myself as the child of long ago. Defenseless, unworthy, broken, insecure, inconvenient, and needy. This child needed comfort wherever it could be found. But there was never enough comfort anywhere. Not in a number, an outfit, a place, a home, a person. I looked for comfort and I looked to be MADE worthy by the "enough-ness" around me, not within me. Because I did not believe there was enough, inside.
Now, don't get me wrong, on a CONSCIOUS level I knew who GOD Made me and how much He loves me and that I am worthy simply because He made me and loves me.
But did this reflect in the way I lived? Did it show in my countenance, my joy, my heart? I was even using THAT as a shield, as an identity. It was not changing my heart, as much as I did try.
And what was my relationship with "what I already have"? Well, it was all going into a bottomless pit, so my relationship with what I already had was fraught with frustration and dissatisfaction. Nothing gave me meaning, nothing gave me peace, nothing brought on the fullness I was searching. Nothing was ever enough.
And another layer of sadness about this is that it robbed me of the joy of taking in what I did have. Those things that I fought hard for, those blessings God had brought into my life, I didn't even "let myself have them". I didn't truly believe (deep down in my broken subconscious) that I deserved these things, that they would last, that I wouldn't somehow screw them up.
Consciously I was grateful, but inside there was no peace.
So enough is a relationship. It has to start with the relationship I have with the one God has made perfect through His holiness. She is within, and she is enough.
Enough is my relationship with the One who has made me enough.
Enough is my relationship with the life He has given me.
Enough is not the number on the scale. Not the list of accomplishments. Not the amount of "likes" on my posts ;-) It isn't attainable "out there". It's IN HERE. It's in dismantling the lies I have believed about myself, and in discovering the freedom of the person He has made, not the prison of the person others have broken.
Enough is attainable because all I need is a willing heart, open and willing to look in and question things. It is attainable because He promises fullness and joy.
I want to spend the rest of my life reminding myself of that and looking for ways to have my "enough" spill over and be poured out for others.
I want to practice living what I know is true, and no longer letting my subconscious choices sabotage what I know. He has made me, He knows me, and He leads me inside for peace.
That is enough.
I want now to be...enough.
Friday, March 09, 2012
Fix you
I have shared my love for music before, and here are two song that are really wrecking me as of late...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EdBym7kv2IM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pY9b6jgbNyc
Lights will guide you home....
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EdBym7kv2IM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pY9b6jgbNyc
Lights will guide you home....
Sunday, February 12, 2012
Only children know...
"No one is ever satisfied where they are..." 'Only the children know what they are looking for" said the little prince...
No one is ever satisfied where they are, the words ring in my ears and I think, no one is ever satisfied because they, or rather we, chase after things. Things to buy, to own, to be, to do. We search outside of ourselves and in the world, for the peace that comes from God, and from within.
How does God speak? Quietly and slowly, in the silence. Not in the frantic pace of our ceaseless striving activity, but in our quiet pondering.
Only children know. They know because they listen within and only seek the desires of their heart.
A child always has time. A child smiles easily. A child laughs heartily.
A child prioritizes love, almost always above all else. A child is content in mom's embrace and dad's smile. A child loves purely with very little expectations for anything more than love, care, and security.
Simple is better
less really IS more
An uncluttered mind is focused on what is most important: here, now, love
Less striving, pushing, demanding, greed
More accepting, giving, releasing, grace
A garden, however small, in spring
A hug given, every day
The truth spoken in love, as often as possible
Beauty is simple, unassuming, quiet and powerful, a child can remind us of that, if we let him
No one is ever satisfied where they are, the words ring in my ears and I think, no one is ever satisfied because they, or rather we, chase after things. Things to buy, to own, to be, to do. We search outside of ourselves and in the world, for the peace that comes from God, and from within.
How does God speak? Quietly and slowly, in the silence. Not in the frantic pace of our ceaseless striving activity, but in our quiet pondering.
Only children know. They know because they listen within and only seek the desires of their heart.
A child always has time. A child smiles easily. A child laughs heartily.
A child prioritizes love, almost always above all else. A child is content in mom's embrace and dad's smile. A child loves purely with very little expectations for anything more than love, care, and security.
Simple is better
less really IS more
An uncluttered mind is focused on what is most important: here, now, love
Less striving, pushing, demanding, greed
More accepting, giving, releasing, grace
A garden, however small, in spring
A hug given, every day
The truth spoken in love, as often as possible
Beauty is simple, unassuming, quiet and powerful, a child can remind us of that, if we let him
Monday, January 16, 2012
Free write...
Stream of consciousness...sometimes for me, is the only way to write, I guess that's what they call free writing
I sit here, I let my thoughts run out of my head and through my fingers to the keys, and I am typing, I guess that means I am writing...but do I really have anything to say?
Maybe that's irrelevant, maybe the exercise of simply sitting here and letting my fingers go and run free, is what gives my soul respite, although it isn't my fingers who need freedom, it is my heart, my soul.
Why do I seek freedom? Is my heart truly imprisoned? Perhaps I have created a prison for myself that I need to break free of. But if I am the jailer, I hold the key, yes? If only it were that easy.
I need Jesus, I need Him to break the chains that enslave me, I need Him to open the doors I have shut and locked for myself.
Am I spending all my time spinning and striving, only to always find myself in the same place? Is it time to finally let go and be still and know that He is God?
I have so little control over most things...isn't it time that I just, let go?
Isn't the truth that we cannot control life? And why would we want to?! it's not as though we know what we're doing!...on most days I don't even know what I want for lunch, let alone know what I want for my life...
I do know I want love, and love can be painful sometimes. Love can be hard work, and it can hurt. And love is sacrifice, and to love is to see someone else first. Maybe that's something I need to focus on, see others first. Stop looking inside so much, and pay attention to the souls around you. Is there redemption in selfless love? No question. No doubt.
I sit here, I let my thoughts run out of my head and through my fingers to the keys, and I am typing, I guess that means I am writing...but do I really have anything to say?
Maybe that's irrelevant, maybe the exercise of simply sitting here and letting my fingers go and run free, is what gives my soul respite, although it isn't my fingers who need freedom, it is my heart, my soul.
Why do I seek freedom? Is my heart truly imprisoned? Perhaps I have created a prison for myself that I need to break free of. But if I am the jailer, I hold the key, yes? If only it were that easy.
I need Jesus, I need Him to break the chains that enslave me, I need Him to open the doors I have shut and locked for myself.
Am I spending all my time spinning and striving, only to always find myself in the same place? Is it time to finally let go and be still and know that He is God?
I have so little control over most things...isn't it time that I just, let go?
Isn't the truth that we cannot control life? And why would we want to?! it's not as though we know what we're doing!...on most days I don't even know what I want for lunch, let alone know what I want for my life...
I do know I want love, and love can be painful sometimes. Love can be hard work, and it can hurt. And love is sacrifice, and to love is to see someone else first. Maybe that's something I need to focus on, see others first. Stop looking inside so much, and pay attention to the souls around you. Is there redemption in selfless love? No question. No doubt.
Saturday, January 14, 2012
Do I know you?
I was thinking about my blog today, and about how, if you are reading it, then..I am talking to you, so then I wondered...are you likely to get what I'm saying? Do you and I have some things in common? For example:
Have you ever found yourself thinking and analyzing so much that you worry about your own sanity?
Have you ever read a book and thought to yourself, "I have to read every other work by this author?"
Have you ever been moved to tears by the pure sound of music, whether pop, classical, jazz?
Have you ever watched the same movie (or read the same book) tens of times and experienced it at a different level each time?
Have you ever felt almost as if you might have a split personality disorder, because in the same day you are capable of reaching the deepest depth of the pit and also the highest peek of joy?
Have you ever thought that you belonged in another time, that you should have been born at a different time in history, or in a different place?
Have you ever seen a character in a movie and thought to yourself, "I could be like that!" except...you're not?
Have you ever felt paralyzed by too many options or choices?
Have you ever had one of those days when you thought "the only way I will get through this day is if I am able to pretend this is someone else's life for a while"?
Have you ever thought that you were meant for something really special, but are quite convinced that you will screw it up?
Are you fascinated by people like Hemingway, George Bernard Shaw, Henry David Thoreau, Thomas Merton?
Did you ever read the book or see the movie "Into the Wild" and were you haunted by it? By how much you identified with the main character?
Do you ever listen to a Jack Johnson song and just dream of leaving everything behind and moving to Hawaii? :-)
These are all things that either have happpened or currently happen to me, and I wonder how many people out there are a little bit like me...strength in numbers, right? Feels good to know that one isn't the only crazy one out there sometimes. But then some other times one would prefer the silly notion that one IS uniquely insane...or maybe that's just me.
I have had times in my life when I have examined how many little pieces of me I have left scattered across the world, and wonder, if I could somehow piece it all back together, what that would feel/look like...Because of how many times I have moved around, I have entire "lives" lived elsewhere, with other people...I have moved on from each life, each time with the sense of loss, along with that sense of adventure and excitement. But after so many years and so many losses, I start feeling as though I need to mourn those lives..and let them go, while somehow maintaining the parts of me that were changed through them, the parts of me that were loved and nurtured, and the parts of me that grew and learned...
If I could I would simultaneously live all of them at once...because they are all part of me, all three countries, all three languages, all three cultures, all those wonderful people who knew me, loved me, helped me to become a more genuine version of me. They liked me in spite of myself, cared for me and genuinely found something of value inside me.
I am pretty sure YOU are one of them, so thank you. And thank you for reading my crazy ramblings. Thank you for liking me, at least a little, for indulging my narcissism, and not judging me for it ;-)
really, thanks!
Have you ever found yourself thinking and analyzing so much that you worry about your own sanity?
Have you ever read a book and thought to yourself, "I have to read every other work by this author?"
Have you ever been moved to tears by the pure sound of music, whether pop, classical, jazz?
Have you ever watched the same movie (or read the same book) tens of times and experienced it at a different level each time?
Have you ever felt almost as if you might have a split personality disorder, because in the same day you are capable of reaching the deepest depth of the pit and also the highest peek of joy?
Have you ever thought that you belonged in another time, that you should have been born at a different time in history, or in a different place?
Have you ever seen a character in a movie and thought to yourself, "I could be like that!" except...you're not?
Have you ever felt paralyzed by too many options or choices?
Have you ever had one of those days when you thought "the only way I will get through this day is if I am able to pretend this is someone else's life for a while"?
Have you ever thought that you were meant for something really special, but are quite convinced that you will screw it up?
Are you fascinated by people like Hemingway, George Bernard Shaw, Henry David Thoreau, Thomas Merton?
Did you ever read the book or see the movie "Into the Wild" and were you haunted by it? By how much you identified with the main character?
Do you ever listen to a Jack Johnson song and just dream of leaving everything behind and moving to Hawaii? :-)
These are all things that either have happpened or currently happen to me, and I wonder how many people out there are a little bit like me...strength in numbers, right? Feels good to know that one isn't the only crazy one out there sometimes. But then some other times one would prefer the silly notion that one IS uniquely insane...or maybe that's just me.
I have had times in my life when I have examined how many little pieces of me I have left scattered across the world, and wonder, if I could somehow piece it all back together, what that would feel/look like...Because of how many times I have moved around, I have entire "lives" lived elsewhere, with other people...I have moved on from each life, each time with the sense of loss, along with that sense of adventure and excitement. But after so many years and so many losses, I start feeling as though I need to mourn those lives..and let them go, while somehow maintaining the parts of me that were changed through them, the parts of me that were loved and nurtured, and the parts of me that grew and learned...
If I could I would simultaneously live all of them at once...because they are all part of me, all three countries, all three languages, all three cultures, all those wonderful people who knew me, loved me, helped me to become a more genuine version of me. They liked me in spite of myself, cared for me and genuinely found something of value inside me.
I am pretty sure YOU are one of them, so thank you. And thank you for reading my crazy ramblings. Thank you for liking me, at least a little, for indulging my narcissism, and not judging me for it ;-)
really, thanks!
Sunday, January 08, 2012
A Simple Life
I have been thinking lately about how much I crave a simple life, only to realize, I am not quite sure what that would entail.
I think it means being close to who God has made me to be, focusing on the ones I love, decluttering my mind, my life, and my home of those things that are just not essential. Easier said than done, right?
I feel a little lost but definitely very motivated to figure out what it is that a simple life would entail for me. Micah 6:8 pops into mind: "He has showed you, O man, what is good. And what does the LORD require of you? To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God."
When I think of what it is that I want my life to be about it always comes back to love, joy, companionship, beauty, simplicity. I think of Jesus, sharing meals with his dear friends, no home, no possessions, no real ties to the material world. And I so wish that could be me. Unencumbered by physical and material desires, free of the want and need to amass things, to create structures we then work to support. But I suppose that's wishing I wasn't human, which sometimes, I do.
I just want life to be SIMPLE. I want LESS. I want just the ESSENTIAL. Life is so short, we really don't have time to be messing around with anything else.
I think it means being close to who God has made me to be, focusing on the ones I love, decluttering my mind, my life, and my home of those things that are just not essential. Easier said than done, right?
I feel a little lost but definitely very motivated to figure out what it is that a simple life would entail for me. Micah 6:8 pops into mind: "He has showed you, O man, what is good. And what does the LORD require of you? To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God."
When I think of what it is that I want my life to be about it always comes back to love, joy, companionship, beauty, simplicity. I think of Jesus, sharing meals with his dear friends, no home, no possessions, no real ties to the material world. And I so wish that could be me. Unencumbered by physical and material desires, free of the want and need to amass things, to create structures we then work to support. But I suppose that's wishing I wasn't human, which sometimes, I do.
I just want life to be SIMPLE. I want LESS. I want just the ESSENTIAL. Life is so short, we really don't have time to be messing around with anything else.
Saturday, December 31, 2011
Winter...
A snapshot of life, captured in a mere instant, and my heart flutters and hungrily seeks beauty, always
Branches stretch up toward the heavens, hopeful for life, for one more drop of water before the last leaf drops to the ground
Still and naked, stripped bare, life snatched by winter. But is winter not death within life? Does it not hold the promise of renewed beauty and abundance, come spring?
Today came with such promise, as did yesterday, and with as much hope as will tomorrow. the last leaf will fall, and bare branches pleading for more will patiently wait...for their time, for another drop, for new life.
Friday, December 30, 2011
The desire of my heart ...?
The chilly air moves through the open window and it makes me want to move. It stirs me up inside and as I step outside I notice the bleeding sky, pink and white and blue….and as I look upward and notice nature’s canvas appear as if from nowhere, I notice how healing its beauty is, and how much I have needed to see beauty as of late. Captivated by it, my heart is alive with it and my thoughts start to flow and I wonder, today….I wonder about the desires of our hearts…
I know and have full confidence that God really does delight in giving us the desires of our hearts. But what if we don’t really know what those are? Is it possible that God gives us those desires even when we ourselves aren’t even able to identify them? Like the beautiful multicolor sky, does He give me things before I realize how soothing they are to me?
I wonder sometimes if part of this journey is recognizing that those things He gives us are, in fact, the things we ourselves want for our lives, desire in our hearts.
As humans we are well known for our self defeating, myopic ways and so I think maybe for some of us the fact is, that we get caught up and lost in the muck and mire of this life and are unable to see the proverbial forest for the trees. We may think that our desire is for a bigger house, or a nicer car, or an important title, only to realize once we achieve and obtain all that, we still have an unmet longing screaming louder and louder into our deaf, or at the very least confused, ears.
The grace of God is this most amazing living thing that continues to astound and surprise me in the most wonderful of ways. And so, I wonder if maybe, just maybe, since He knows me better than I know myself, He will give me what I most deeply desire, even when I really don't have e a clue what that is.
Could it be that this most gracious Father wants so badly to bless me that He gives me what I most deeply desire, before I ask? Could it be that all I truly need is to earnestly seek Him and His favor, and the result will be that He blesses me with the things I never knew I wanted?
I deeply hope so, because often I find myself so lost. I desperately pray so because I cannot trust my easily deceived heart to figure these things out.
I trust so because my Father loves me and my yearning is to honor Him, and He is ever faithful.
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